If you were to believe all that you see in the movies and the television shows that Hollywood puts out, you would think that every woman secretly wants to find a guy who falls in love with them really fast and gives them that whirlwind romance that takes off from the first moment that they meet. And if you have ever tried that approach, you have probably found out that it just does not work quite as smoothly as all of those movies and shows seem to portray. While it may sound like a good idea, falling for a woman too fast is not always a good idea.
Dating and relationships makes both men and women a little insecure. Hinging all of your hopes and your dreams on another person can be a scary thing to do. So, when you meet a woman and give her the impression that you are in love right from the get go, more often than not, you are going to trigger that fear reaction in her. Or, you are going to make her a little suspicious of what your REAL intentions are.
Take Your Time... She Will Be Yours...
A really common theme that seems to show up time and time again with guys that come on too strong in the beginning with a woman is that they are really insecure. They are afraid that if they do not speed things up, they will lose the woman that they really want to be with. Well, sometimes insecurities can be irrational and this is one of those situations where that is definitely TRUE. As long as you are doing all of the right things to make a woman feel and stay attracted to you, you don't have to worry about losing her just because you are not speeding things up.
One of the most common complaints that women have when it comes to relationships is that their guy won't commit to them. Yet, those same women stay with that same guy and keep on wondering when he's going to commit to them. Doesn't make sense if women want you to speed things up, right?
Keep Her Wanting You and She WILL Want You...
If you don't commit to a woman too soon and you don't try to show her that you are already won over by her, you keep things exciting. The more she wants you, and the more than she feels like she has NOT won you over yet... the more she is going to chase after YOU. That's the scenario that you really want to have play out if you are going to make her fall in love with you.
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