Top Tips to Consider If You Want, Always in Love.

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any people, whether they are married or not, think about ways on how they can stay in love for as long as possible. The reality is not all couples end up happily together. There will always be problems along the way. The key is in how they handle such situations to help save their relationships.

The good thing is there are many ways that you can try if you are one of these people who want to be in love. What is important is you have the determination to make your relationship work and also allocate the time for your other half.

Here are some tips to help the two of you stay in love and be happy. You may also use these tips to learn how to save a marriage today.

Do not go to bed when you still have unresolved problems. This is one good tip by many married couples. And it makes perfect sense. Because if you have an argument that day, then you will still have it when you wake up the next morning. So it is always better to solve it first before you sleep.

Talk to each other. It does not have to be about something serious. You can talk about anything. Ask your partner how his or her work has been like. Start a conversation about any interesting topic you have read lately in a magazine or a newspaper. What is important is the two of you spending some quality time through chatting.

Give a nice little gift even if there is no special occasion. Quite obviously, this is one effective suggestion if you want the love to rekindle again. So how do you fall back in love? Oftentimes it is through small but thoughtful acts like this one.

Stay as intimate as you possibly can. A hug in the morning is usually a great way to start the day. Do not forget to kiss your spouse before you go to work. Or simply whisper "I love you" every chance you get.

Go on dates. Watch a movie, a concert, or a play together. Go to your favourite restaurant and relive the days when you were still getting to know each other. Not only is it a fun thing to do, but it will endear yourselves to one another.

While there are many other tips you can follow on how to stay in love or even about marriage help, the ones mentioned here should be a good start for you. Again, just spend the time to work on your relationship and you will find that it can be really easy after all.

David and Victoria Beckham

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Lovely couple

Married July 1999

Ways to Make Yourself Feel Better and Get Over Your Ex

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nding a relationship or being dumped is never an easy thing to go through. Not only do you have to suffer from the initial confrontation or rejection but the lingering feelings of loss and emptiness can remind you daily of your old partner. It is never healthy to repress your feelings but that doesn't mean you can't do everything in your power to move on and be happy!

Understand why it's over - If there is any doubt in your mind about whether or not the relationship is on or off then you need to talk to your partner. Before you will be able to move on with your life, you either need to reconcile or get closure on why the relationship has ended.

Cut off communication - Those lonely nights make it very tempting to reach for the phone and confess your undying love for your ex, but you must be strong! Make your life easier, block him or her on facebook and twitter and delete their number from your phone. Hearing about their life and seeing their new pictures tends to make moving on that much harder.

Remove those old reminders - When you have been in a relationship with someone for any serious amount of time then you will have no doubt picked up a few mementos. Remove all pictures of you and your ex, any knick knacks like stuffed toys. Remove anything that invokes a strong feeling about your ex. It's easy to get stuck on good memories after some time has passed!

Re-assess your life - Use this time to reflect on what you want in life and how you can get it. Think about what went wrong with your partner and what you need to be careful of next time. Don't think of this change in your life as a failure because it is a learning experience to grow from. Eating healthy and exercising more is guaranteed to put you in a better head space and will aid in taking your life in a positive direction.

Take New Hubby- Take up a new hobby, travel overseas or just sit at home and watch the full DVD series of your favourite TV show.

These are just a few ideas to get you started on your path to recovery. Although it doesn't seem like it right now, and it sounds cliché, watch out there may be a special person out there that would be more than willing to take out a magnificent person like you!

Things You Need To Know About In Order To Sexually Satisfy Your Woman (Mature Minds Only)

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any men would like to give their women GREAT SEX and that's a good thing.

When we give our women incredible SEXUAL PLEASURE, it makes us feel like REAL MEN.

The trouble is, most guys don't sexually satisfy their women and many pay a huge price for their failings in the bedroom... Did you know that 50% of women admit to having CHEATED?

And the primary reason why they cheated -- to get BETTER SEX.

Ouch.

As far as I'm concerned, the average guy is lousy in bed because he focuses on the wrong things. Three things in particular get most guys attention:

- Their 'size'

- Their staying power

- Their sexual experience

Now here's the truth about those three things:

- Size is irrelevant (and you'll see why a bit later)

- Staying power is important to some degree but great staying power does not ensure great sex

- Sexual experience (or how many women you've slept with) does not mean a man is good or bad at pleasing a woman.

So, what exactly do women want in bed?

In other words -- what do you have to do to give your woman truly great sex and really SEXUALLY SATISFY her?

The short answer is ORGASMS.

The slightly longer answer is VAGINAL ORGASMS.

The ultimate answer to the question is vaginal orgasms during intercourse every time you make-love to your woman.

Now, how many guys do that for their women?

Not many.

In fact, less than 30% of women have ever had a vaginal orgasm and a much smaller percentage have had them during intercourse.

So the truth is that women don't care much about 'size', staying power or sexual experience -- they really want orgasms.

The next question you probably have is:

"How do I give my woman vaginal orgasms?"

Great question -- glad you asked.

You need just 3 things to do it and here they are:

- Good Sexual beliefs

- Basic Knowledge of female anatomy and sex techniques

- The ability to be dominant in the bedroom

Allow me to explain...

You need the right sexual beliefs.

Many guys blew their chances of sexually satisfying their women by believing nonsense like this:

"I'm too small 'down there' to please my woman"

Or

"I don't last long enough to satisfy her"

My advice to you is to get rid of any sexual beliefs you have like that and replace them with empowering ones.

Secondly, you need knowledge of female anatomy.

You need to know where the clitoris, g-spot and deep spot are. You need to know how to turn your woman on.

Then you need to know specific techniques to stimulate those areas and give your woman the orgasms she wants, needs and craves.

Finally, you have to understand that women are SEXUALLY SUBMISSIVE and to truly blow your woman's mind in the bedroom -- this fact means that you have to be dominant.

Valentine's Day Do's For Singles

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ere you are, single as can be, not looking forward to Valentine's Day. You have come across articles advising you what not to do, with the hope that you won't feel worse. However, reading a list of don'ts may make you feel like you're excluded from yet another thing. After all, it's bad enough that you don't have a significant other on a day that seems prejudicial against singles. Now some author wants you to find out what else you can't do this day?

No need to fret. Valentine's Day might seem friendly to couples only, but you don't have to be left out. There are things that you can do as a single man or woman to celebrate the spirit of the day.

Do:

1. Believe that you are lovable.

Just because you have nothing special planned for the day does not mean that you are not special. Just because you don't have a significant other does not mean that you are unlovable. You are indeed lovable, no matter what your current status is.

2. Help yourself believe that #1 is true.

You may feel unsure about this next step, but give it a shot anyway. Every time you look at yourself in the mirror, say earnestly, "I am attractive. I am desirable. I am lovable." You may feel awkward initially, but as you keep repeating the exercise, you will find that the words eventually sink in.

3. Appreciate what you do have.

Even though you may be currently partner-less, chances are, you still have other things (or people) to be thankful for. So, count your blessings! Whip out a list of things in your life that do matter, such as your health, family, job, crazy best friend, old roommate. After you have completed your list, read it over and be thankful for every item.

4. Show your support for those who are in a relationship.

If you do this, regardless of what you feel inside, you are effectively investing in an opportunity to allow others to be happy for your happiness in the future. So go ahead, help your co-worker figure out the most romantic restaurant to take his fiancée to. Be genuinely enthusiastic for that neighbour whose online dating account finally paid off. Be happy as your love struck friends go out on a date. Keep yourself cheerful and supportive of others. The time for you to celebrate with your own special someone will eventually come!

5 Don'Ts for Valentine's Day

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alentine's Day is coming. How are you doing? If you are single and content, or if you approach February 14 as just another day in February, then there might be other articles that merit better use of your time. However, if you dread the prospect of spending Valentine's Day alone, this article is written for you.

Valentine's Day may not be your favourite time of the year if you are single and longing for that special someone. Indeed, this day seems to make second class citizens out of singles. Even if February 14 seems to scream "for couples only," you can still choose not to let all the brouhaha surrounding it bother you. How? For starter, by following this simple list of don'ts.

Do Not:

1. Resent those who are in a relationship.

Feelings are directly connected to thoughts and behaviours. Harbouring feelings of resentment opens the door for you to start thinking and behaving negatively toward the person you are resenting. While you may be able to hide your emotions, behaviours cannot be hidden. Why jeopardize your connections with the people in your life, just because they happen to have a special someone?

2. Listen to sappy love songs.

Even if this has become part of your regular routine, make a conscious decision not to do so on the days leading up to V day. The reason has to do with the fact that songs are words that are set to melodies. Well, it is hard to underestimate the power of music. Hearing words set to catchy tunes seems to amplify the song's message more powerfully than mere words can do. This does not even take into account the way choruses tend stick to our memories. So, if listening to others talk about their love stories is bad enough for you, imagine the effect of hearing the same message, intensified many times over, with its residual memory being played in your mind, time and time again!

3. Rehash what you did for Valentine's Day the last time you had a date.

Let bygones be bygones. Even if this is the first year in a long time that you will be partner-less for Valentine's Day, resist the temptation to wallow in the memories of yesteryears. Why inflict pain on yourself?

4. Find anyone to be your date for hire.

This way of looking at it may sound harsh. Still, if you are willing to get just about anyone to be your date with the sole purpose of avoiding loneliness, you might end up regretting this move. It is better to be alone for Valentine's day (and any other day) rather than be together with someone you hardly know, or even like.

5. Muting your sorrow through drugs or alcohol.

Turning to substances to escape from your sorrow is never the answer. Not only will your body pay the price for it, the original problem will still remain after the drugs wear off.

Consider These Strategies

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o many people long for their relationship to be a source of strength and warmth. Since joy and happiness is wanted by all, all look for that lasting marriage. Or maybe it's just that some people learn secrets of success from their grandparents or other relatives or friends. And since the latter is probably more accurate, here are some tried and true tips from people who have enjoyed long, happy relationships.

Creating Intimacy: using time together to make a great understanding with each other. Each couple needs time to grow close by expressing their deepest thoughts. Two people are intimate when they are able to share with each other the innermost and most essential parts of themselves without any kind of inhibition. We all want to be loved and cared for, and by doing this for each other it creates a place of peace for each to dwell.

Giving each person their space to grow: Every person needs the room to be themselves. Loving the other person means that we trust them and don't pry. Forgiveness: The best thing you can do in a relationship is to always find ways to forgive and find a middle ground. Actively forget sometimes. Be the first to apologize and make up. Start right now!

Do not forget that the love quotes we all read ought to be an inspiration rather than an indictment. Most people all need a relationship that lasts similar to we learn about in the quotes about love. Nevertheless that marriage is one that is procured and not simply handed to any of us.

Caring: Creating intimacy also involves regular expression of caring and tenderness so that each one in the relationship may know how important he or she is to the other. Caring for our mate can be so rewarding if they are good at showing their appreciation. Be careful to always show your appreciation and they will learn to do the same.

Learning to be open: if a marriage is not open in that they communicate, the marriage will be cold. Each person must learn to open up and be honest with each other.

Truthfulness: Saying and doing what is truthful and honest for both of you would help a lot, and acceptance of each other's personality and characteristics would foster an understanding between the two of you like no other.

Growing out of your past: How we treat our spouse is a direct reflection of what happened in our past and the lessons we learned from it. This is essential, too, in understanding the behaviour of each other in connection with the atmosphere he or she grew up in.

People's inability to create intimacy in a relationship creates distance, the worm capable of eating the union slowly away. Yet it is crucial that each person in the marriage actively seek to make their marriage one that is inviting for the other person to be in.

Today is the day to jump in and start working on your relationship. The highest gift you can give yourself is the gift of a great relationship. If you two are walking hand in hand, life can be so sweet.