You are in a pretty awful place right now, because
you feel like you are in love with a guy, but at the same time it feels like he
keeps on playing games with you and breaking your heart. Even though you may
feel like he is the only man that you can feel that way for, you do have to
consider whether or not it is worth it for you to remain in a relationship
limbo where you really are not sure what is going on and where you stand. It's
just not healthy to stay that way. It's no fun to feel this way; kind of like
you are torn between staying with a guy you know probably is not the one, and
feeling at times like he has to be the one. What should you do when you are in
love with a man who seems to be breaking your heart all the time?
My first suggestion would be to really search deep
inside to make sure that what you are feeling for this guy really is love and
not something else. It's easy to feel like you are totally enamoured by a man
only to be masking the fact that you are really just happy to have someone,
anyone rather than being alone. That may not really be what is going on, but it
is something that is worth taking a look at for sure.
Another thing that I would suggest is that you take
stock in where your life is at right now. Are you happy in all facets of your
life and this is the only area that seems to be bringing you stress? Because if
it is, then you may also want to weight out whether or not it is worth it to
have all the other aspects of your life going well and then to have this
situation bringing you down. As they say, a man is supposed to enrich your
life, not bring you down when everything else seems to be going well.
Finally, I would also like to suggest that you see
if it is not a miscommunication issue that is going on between you and the guy
you are dating. There are plenty of situations where a woman will feel let down
about something and the man she is dating has no clue because the communication
is sorely lacking. You can't expect him to change the way he is if he does not
understand that the way he is seems to be hurting you. So, if you have not done
it yet, you also need to try and communicate the way that you feel and see how
he responds to it.
If he does not change after that point and you
still feel like he is breaking your heart all the time, that might be a sign that you are with the wrong man and you need to get out of the
relationship no matter how you feel about him.
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