SOME MARRIED MEN ARE TICKING TIME BOMBS WAITING TO EXPLODE. GET SMART LADIES!

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By Jenny Chika Okafor

What!!! So you don't want the baby!

You meet him. He swears he is the Prince charming you have been waiting for but there is a catch: he is married with children but living apart under the same roof with his wife while waiting for their divorce to come through and most importantly for the sake of their beautiful children.

The equal rights syndrome has brought harm to the marriage system

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By Odimegwu Onwumere

Commenting on a post on my Facebook page, a lady wrote that to be a good husband one has to be willing to act as an ox whose only role is to carry passengers as well as luggage and still endure harsh treatment.

The above statement is without doubt the mindset of many ladies in our clime today. And this could be the reason many women these days treat their men with disdain, apart from those with the gender equality madness. To this set of ladies they believe that it is eye for eye, tooth for tooth and blood for blood with the men. They see the duties of wives in their matrimonial homes as slavery. They do not have respect for the men or rather put; they believe that a man should respect himself beyond a reasonable doubt before he should expect same from his woman.

PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE (part 1)

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By Barr Godson Nwachukwu

How prepared are you to embark on this journey?

A married man was travelling in an air craft and was wearing his wedding ring on a wrong finger and someone noticed and said "Sir, you're wearing your ring on a wrong finger". The man responded, “Don’t worry; it is because I married a wrong woman".

OVER THE HILL: OLDER MEN, OLDER WOMEN AND HUMAN NATURE.

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By Jenny Chika Okafor

Is it too late to love? No. If only we can come off our fictitious imagination, get real and humble ourselves, we will have it soon

I look around me and see men and women of great intelligence who due to poor choices, over estimation of selves, pride, arrogance and self- conceitedness missed opportunities which may have significantly changed their lives. 

RECOGNIZE THE SIGNS

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By Barr Godson Nwachukwu

Do you really care?

How do you show your partner that you love them? Do you give them gifts? Do you take them out for a meal or cook a special dinner for them? Do you tell them half a dozen times a day, ' I love you?' And do they do the same for you?

PUT EACH OTHER FIRST

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By Barr Godson Nwachukwu

Put your partner first. Selfishness will never work in relationship.

I know a couple who decided to seize an opportunity to build themselves a house, and the man took charge of the work. Halfway through the process, the woman decided- for entirely valid reasons , one of which was that the area was prone to armed robbery attacks - that she wasn't at all sure she wanted to live in that house when it was completed. The man on the other hand had put a great deal of effort into it and didn't want to waste it.