Some of the issues that disrupt a relationship can include a history of stereotyping or mistrust, blaming the other person for the difficulties that will and do arise, excluding or discounting the other's feelings when focusing on a task, having no clear and defined objectives as well as where roles and expectations of each person in the relationship are undefined or not defined clearly.
Relationships are often seen as fragile requiring huge effort to maintain. However, a relationship can also provide a safe haven for you to be and can be long lasting despite the potential pitfalls.
Creating a happy and lasting relationship can be achieved in several ways:
Society may be seen as a web of relationships, which requires all members to work and contribute their share in order to achieve a common goal. Having a relationship that is happy, where cooperation and respect are valued, simply makes the whole society work better.
This can only be achieved when all those involved work well together and for relationships it's no different.
Happy relationships are defined by you and your partner openly expressing your feelings and perspectives on all matters relevant to the relationship.
The benefit here is that when the they realize they are being listened to they are more likely to feel the importance given to them which frees the way for them, in turn, to be more open to what you have to say.
Understand first and only then act on each others feelings and perspective.
Another key to a happy relationship is respect. You show respect by listening to your partner and by trying sincerely to understand how they function. You can also show respect to each other by confirming that they are doing everything they can.
The opposite of respect is being too quick to form judgements based on unfounded facts and prejudices.
Respect is really the foundation for a great relationship. This also means respecting yourself as well as respecting the other.
And yet another key area in creating a happy relationship is to tackle the differences between you immediately.
Work towards a win-win solution for both parties.
This can be done when both of you acknowledge that the relationship is important. That each of you is willing to exert the time, effort and energy necessary to understand the each other's perspective and needs, and work at it until it is resolved.
Effectively listening and no pre-judging are important if you are to really understand each other.
Informal discussions from time to time are also beneficial for ongoing good will with each other. They bring out issues and concerns comfortably. You also feel more relaxed allowing you to think more clearly and maybe come up with some resolutions that you might not have been able to come up with when dealing emotionally with an issue in the heat of the moment.
Develop an atmosphere where each of you can express your feelings when needed.
When people fail to express whatever is on their mind or their feelings about an incident that has happened, it can get in the way of building an effective relationship.
Relationships are important to everyone, addressing issues and problems right away is a must to further improve your relationship and to creating the happy relationship that you want.
Relationships are often seen as fragile requiring huge effort to maintain. However, a relationship can also provide a safe haven for you to be and can be long lasting despite the potential pitfalls.
Creating a happy and lasting relationship can be achieved in several ways:
Society may be seen as a web of relationships, which requires all members to work and contribute their share in order to achieve a common goal. Having a relationship that is happy, where cooperation and respect are valued, simply makes the whole society work better.
This can only be achieved when all those involved work well together and for relationships it's no different.
Happy relationships are defined by you and your partner openly expressing your feelings and perspectives on all matters relevant to the relationship.
The benefit here is that when the they realize they are being listened to they are more likely to feel the importance given to them which frees the way for them, in turn, to be more open to what you have to say.
Understand first and only then act on each others feelings and perspective.
Another key to a happy relationship is respect. You show respect by listening to your partner and by trying sincerely to understand how they function. You can also show respect to each other by confirming that they are doing everything they can.
The opposite of respect is being too quick to form judgements based on unfounded facts and prejudices.
Respect is really the foundation for a great relationship. This also means respecting yourself as well as respecting the other.
And yet another key area in creating a happy relationship is to tackle the differences between you immediately.
Work towards a win-win solution for both parties.
This can be done when both of you acknowledge that the relationship is important. That each of you is willing to exert the time, effort and energy necessary to understand the each other's perspective and needs, and work at it until it is resolved.
Effectively listening and no pre-judging are important if you are to really understand each other.
Informal discussions from time to time are also beneficial for ongoing good will with each other. They bring out issues and concerns comfortably. You also feel more relaxed allowing you to think more clearly and maybe come up with some resolutions that you might not have been able to come up with when dealing emotionally with an issue in the heat of the moment.
Develop an atmosphere where each of you can express your feelings when needed.
When people fail to express whatever is on their mind or their feelings about an incident that has happened, it can get in the way of building an effective relationship.
Relationships are important to everyone, addressing issues and problems right away is a must to further improve your relationship and to creating the happy relationship that you want.
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