"True love is the soul's recognition of
its counterpoint in another". Soul mate for me is someone you deeply connect
with. The connection is unbelievable that you understand each other even when
words are not uttered. You both are always thinking about the same thing and
you are compatible in every way. I don't care what those self-righteous people
say but a soul mate is someone who completes your existence. People who have
fallen deeply in love can relate when I say that when you have found your soul
mate, your life is never the same anymore, you feel complete even if there are
other things that are obviously lacking in your life. The tips below can help
you understand it further:
1.) Believe that you will find true love.
Have a little faith and start believing that
someday you are going to find that person who will love you for all that you
are. Allow me to quote Paulo Coelho- "When you want something, the entire
universe conspires in helping you to achieve it", he is absolutely right.
True love is such a deep, mysterious topic and there are many opposing views
whether or not soul mates do exist. For some, there is no such thing. Nobody
really knows, right? What you need to do is to keep an open mind and stop being
cynical. When your thoughts are always negative you are also attracting
negative situations. Your definition of soul mate may be different than most
people so hold on to whatever you believe in and know that there is someone out
there, somewhere, for you.
2.) Make yourself a better person.
Are there aspects in your life that you need to
improve on? Do you have to work on some issues about yourself? Are you unhappy
with yourself and life in general? Before finding a soul mate, you have to be
the best person you can be. Work on your issues and make peace with yourself.
You won't have someone stay with you if you are bringing a lot of emotional
baggage into the relationship.
Another way on how to better yourself is by
engaging yourself to whatever you are passionate about. You are not only
helping to make the world a better place but you are bringing yourself closer
to your soul mate.
3.) Be Patient.
Everything that happens in our lives has perfect
timing so you don't have to rush into things or you may end up being with the
wrong person. Take your time and give yourself a chance to get to know the
person. Keep in mind that love is not just about strong physical attraction.
True love will make you see past the superficial aspect of the relationship.
4.) Learn how to love and accept people for
who they are and not for who you want them to become.
This is a very common pitfall in a relationship. We
try and try to change somebody to what is ideal. Remember that every person is
unique and no human being is created perfect. We are given the ability to love
so that we can accept the person with all their imperfections and faults. If
you live in your own fantasy world and you want someone perfect then you will
never know how to find your soul mate. Unrealistic or delusional expectations
can ruin everything for you. These will prevent you from experiencing what true
love really is.
1 comment:
Thanks for sharing. I think we just need to be honest with ourselves in what we're wanting. I like your honesty, what you have mentioned rings true and has given me some pointers to work on!
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