There are number of basic errors that men make with women.
All of them stem from the same insecurity 'I want you to like me, and I don't believe you will think I am enough as I am'.
The aim for every man has to be to rid ourselves of this insecurity, because it tends to manifest itself in a number of ways. Here are the 3 most common:
1) Begging
Strong, masculine 'sell sell sell' director type guys suddenly become wet and spineless in the face of an attractive woman. They beg, plead and try to logically convince her to like him. They see themselves as being such 'nice guys' If this is you, it's time to get yourself a spine.
2) Buying
This is the guy who turns up in his Mercedes on the first date and whisks her off to a top restaurant for a super expensive meal. Then he'll treat her to champagne, fine chocolates, 5 star weekends in a luxurious hotel...you get the idea.
You don't need to spend money on a woman in order for her to like you. Of course, it's absolutely fine to spend money on her, but remember - you do it because you want to, for your own satisfaction. It is not a requirement for getting an attractive woman to like you.
3) Bullying
The guy doesn't get what he wants from her, so tries to bully her into submission. This may take the form of just being pushy with her, or some other way. There are a number of forms this may take - so take a moment to consider if this is something you do. If so - give it up. It's not helping you.
And that's it - 3 simple things you can stop doing today, and you will automatically be ahead of 90% of other guys.
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