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Tuesday, January 20, 2015
Connecting with your man emotionally
When you
talk about male emotional intimacy in relationship, is it of much importance to
men or are most men simply just interested in sex?
Building an
emotional connection with a man is what this article is all about.
Do men crave for emotional intimacy
It is
misconstrued that men are not interested in having emotional intimacy in a
relationship. Most women assume that men accept intimacy and emotional bonding
for the sole purpose of keeping a woman happy.
The fact is
that men do actually want intimacy and to build an emotional connection with
their women in their relationship. They crave for these things as much as women
do.
Many of the
leading relationship experts now believe this to be true. Once when you look
behind the macho persona, you will notice this fact.
Any woman,
who sees this herself, will understand how the male mind works in relationship.
It is an added advantage in building the type of relationship she desires.
How does a man achieve emotional intimacy in a
relationship?
How a man
builds emotional connection happens in opposite direction to that of a woman
·
A man can reach a point of emotional intimacy
through sex.
·
A woman needs that connection and intimacy
before she wants to have sex with a man.
This creates
problems. Often women assume that men are only interested in sex particularly
in the early stages of a relationship. On the other side, men can also assume
that women are not interested in them or are sexually cold
The middle
ground may be missing here. How does a woman move forward with a man she likes,
or emotionally strengthens the relationship she is into currently?
Building the connection with a man
The answer
to this lies in striking a balance.
Men who
actually want a relationship with a woman are not in a hurry to pressure them
for sex straight away.
The woman
should also not send a wrong signal to turn him off.
The trick is
to provide a connection with a man by showing him the real you and allowing him
get to know you. If he likes you, that intimacy will build subsequently.
Other problems you may encounter
The
variation of emotional connection in male and female can create a headache in a
relationship, particularly in the early stages. For example:
·
In the absence of developing emotional
connection or an existing emotional connection feels, gets lost, a woman may
often feel that the man is pulling away. This will touch the panic button of
the woman and causes her to tend to nag thereby pushing the man even further away.
Suggested
pattern of building an emotional connection with a man
1. Let him see you for who you truly are.
2. Allow a heart connection to develop.
If you
proceed in that order, then once you reach step three, the emotional connection
will flourish rapidly to form the basis of a very healthy and loving
relationship.
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