Are you in a situation where you have invested a lot of time and effort in your relationship but you can clearly see that you man is not ready for commitment? Does it seem like all the time you have spent with him has gotten you nowhere?
Do you feel that your relationship is still at stage one and you are only wishing and hoping that someday he will change his mind about you? If you have gone through the trials and tribulations of a relationship where your man is not ready to commit, then here are the tips you need to follow...
• Start setting guidelines right away...
If you keep on doing what you have always done then there is absolutely no way that you will get a different result in your relationship. If you want things to change then you have to start setting guidelines right away.
Stop being someone who is his second choice and make it absolutely clear to him what you expect of him.
• Give him a taste of what life would be like without you...
If you have done everything there is to do to convince him to commit to you then it's about time that you give him a little taste of what it's like to live without you. It's time that you take two steps back and avoid him momentarily.
A great way to do this is to let him know that you need a break from the relationship since he is not able to make up his mind about you. One of two things will happen during this phase - either he will recognise your value and will want to commit to you or he will let you move on. Either way you will finally get the answer you were looking for.
• Give him a reasonable amount of time and let him know that you plan to end things...
Another good way to get him to make up his mind about you is to let him know that he can have his space and make up his mind about you. Again, this will do one of two things - either he will fear that he might lose you to some of the guy and will be ready to commit to you or he will completely let you go and you will be in a position to finally move on with your life.
There is no point in waiting around for someone who will never commit to you. You will find more peace with someone who is ready to give you the type of commitment you seek.
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