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| What a good thing to know he is husband material! |
Today’s people fall
for appearances. And sadly that may be the main reason for rising divorce
statistics. We may be so captivated by good looks, clothing and the mode of
dressing, sweet words and some fancy acquisition like cars that we completely
sideline character traits of a person. Sometimes we are so charmed by the way
someone looks, we don’t seem to care if that person is honest, self-disciplined
and controlled, and considerate. Inner beauties can make a happy marriage
that’s why you should focus on knowing the person inside than being swayed by
the outside beauty. What do you look out for in husband material?
His relationship with
his parents
A man’s good
relationship with his parents will naturally lead to a good relationship with
his wife. Growing up exposes a child to emotional experiences and teaches us
how to treat others. We acquire this from those we live with such as our
parents. In childhood, you learn how to obey and respect your parents and it
teaches us that we will not always get our way, and that sometimes we will have
to give in for the sake of peace and harmony. These are good character traits
that go with you into marriage.
Therefore a man that
is respectful, thoughtful and considerate of his mother and father will also be
that way with the woman he marries.
Good relationship with
God
You will not know if
a man has a good relationship with God by what you see or by what you hear him
say. People can pretend to be what they are not for some time; eventually true
character does come out. Going to church, wearing a cross or praying aloud does
not signify his good relationship with God.
These can be done to appear good. Wait and be patient, you will find out
who he is really. A man who has a good relationship with God will exhibit Godly
qualities in his behaviour. Some of these wonderful qualities in husband
material are gentleness, selflessness, meekness, temperance, humility,
self-control, faithfulness and sincerity.
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