The 7 keys
that will help you to have a healthier relationship are: 1. Understanding 2.
Knowledge. 3. Wisdom. 4. Love. 5. Integrity. 6. Respect. 7. Trust. There is no
particular order for these keys, but it is important that we have them in our
relationships.
1.
Understanding: When you take a look at your own relationships with others you
will find that there are some people that are easier to get along with than
others. Some people have struggles getting along with others maybe because they
don't understand them. The other thing to consider is how some people have no
problem getting along with you, while others have a hard time with you.
Whenever we meet people we must take the time to understand them. Try to
understand their background, their personality, their likes and dislikes and
your relationship will avoid pitfalls.
2.
Knowledge: The lack of knowledge can create poor a relationship. The more you
know about the person the healthier your relationship should be. Get to know
the person in your life. Talk to them, ask them to tell you about themselves.
Do not judge people by what you hear, find out for yourself from the person.
This will build a better relationship between you and the person.
3. Wisdom:
Wisdom is a precious gem to have in a relationship. With wisdom you will be
able to deal with difficult issues that will present themselves from time to
time. Every relationship has good and bad times; you need wisdom to guide you
through those turbulent times. This is especially true in marriages. Wisdom
helps us to make right judgments and at the right time.
4. Love:
Love will help your relationship to stand the test of time. When there is love
in the relationship the road ahead is not so difficult. The health of your
relationship will depend on the strength of the love in the relationship. A
relationship without love is like a ship without a sail; it leaves the harbour
but will not get too far. We must seek to maintain love in our relationships.
5.
Integrity. In order to survive in your relationship there must be a high level
of integrity. People must be truthful about themselves. Integrity means that we
are honest in our dealing with people. If your relationship is going to last
for a long time integrity has to play a vital role in it.
6. Respect.
First of all we should remember that we have to respect ourselves before we can
show respect to others. When we respect others we treat them well. When we
speak to them our words are pleasant. We use positive and uplifting words when
talking to them. This for sure will create a lovely atmosphere a happier,
healthier relationship with others.
7. Trust:
For any relationship to grow and become healthy it must have trust. Trust is a
very significant key for all relationships. It is useless to be in a relationship
where little or no trust is. Trust is built by what we do and not just what we
say. We must live by our words and people will trust us.
Your
relationship must possess these 7 keys so that it will last for a life time.
However, by
applying these 7 keys; understanding, knowledge, wisdom, love, integrity,
respect, and trust, your relationship will be healthy.
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