Marriage Killers

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Marriage should ideally be the happiest phase in any couple's lives. A marriage is all about sharing and caring for each other, helping each other to grow as a person and forming a deep bond of lifelong friendship and companionship. But in current times, the majority of the marriages are either ending in divorces or mutual separation. There are a lot of "unhappy campers" out there!

The fear of a botched marriage and the resultant pain is so great that many couples have started to live in together without tying the knot. In 2010-2011, the Canadian civil courts had to deal with 53,804 new divorce cases. And many more married couples are heading towards splitsville.

It is easy to assume from these statistics that marriage has become a very complicated, demanding job in contemporary times. But in reality, it is the couple's own behaviour and immaturity that is bringing about this marital doom. Discussed below are the 2 commonest mistakes committed by couples that end marriages.

Better Sex Communication

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What is sexual communication? It’s the ability to reach a level of intimacy that is both fun, exciting, sensual, and helps achieve a better orgasm. Taking the time to understand sexual communication will create the opportunity for a better bond between you and your partner. Even more, some of the traits of the following communication techniques are basic steps to developing a higher level of relatedness with any person. Put them in a different context, and you will have tools to open, create, evolve, and maintain a higher level and more interesting conversation. Otherwise, consider the following for better sex through sexual communication. Give It A Try. It REALLY works!

Signs He is Falling in Love

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Is he one of your many friends that you like a little too much? Do you wish that he liked you or do you suspect that he may like you? You want to be able to tell when a guy likes you so that you can know how best to treat him. What are the signs that he is getting attached to you?

Things That Will Help You Make Him Commit

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How to make a man commit to marriage is simple, but not easy. A positive attitude will bring you tremendous success in your relationship. An optimistic attitude will keep your relationship going and dramatically increase your chances of getting him to commit.

If you are the type of person who spends a lot of time at work or building your career, you may be surprise that your relationship with your man is suffering seriously because of lack of attention and care.

How to Make Him to Open up His Feelings to You

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Men communicate differently from women. Some men are just not good in expressing their emotions so don't think that the problem is you. Guys are more comfortable expressing their love through actions and some are just not comfortable in opening another level of themselves because they think it will diminish their masculinity. No man wants to look vulnerable in front of their partner. They also have the fear of being judged that's why they wait a considerable amount of time to establish trust. Sure, you are dating a man of few words when it comes to discussing emotions but with a little patience, you can get him to express his feeling to you.

Here are some tips on how you can get your man talk about his feelings:

Online Dating May Help

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Some found themselves a little lost after ending a long-term relationship. After the time needed to get back on the feet, everyone around the "new" single usually tries to help his/her state of mind, by trying to push them back into the dating world, introducing their single colleagues, acquaintances and so on. Some people said that most of these fixes were a little disturbing, as the only criteria their friends used to select these future dates was their single status, and they couldn't look at these arranged dates as potential partners.

From Online to Actual Mate

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Being part of a couple seems natural, so when we find ourselves dumped, left on the shelf or just feeling a bit sad and lonely, the first thing we do is go out and look for a new mate. Okay, so maybe the men are first in the queue in that game, but gregarious is what we do as a specie and in our fast-paced and up-to-the-minute lives, we often don't want to spend hours down at the local joint eyeing-up the usual suspects.