Continuous conflict is
the mark of a relationship that is no longer working. There can never be peace
in a conflict situation even if the partners pretend that nothing is
wrong. The sources of conflict may be distrust,
value clashing, negligence, etc., but will worsen as communication gap widens,
this leads to the inability of the spouses to communicate their fears.
When both partners have
concluded that their relationship is not worth it anymore, crises will deepen.
The truth is that any troubled relationship can be rescued; the exception is
when a reconciliatory move is only coming from one partner. It requires the
willingness of the partners involved because when one gives up, the other is
likely too.
Communication in
relationship should be a lifelong act. We must keep talking to be in
relationship. Communication ensures the growth of a relationship otherwise you
will move further apart. Watch any distressed relationship. They had stopped
talking and no longer making any effort to talk.
If you don’t talk to
feel the minds of each other, certainly there would be distrust and
misunderstanding.
Any relationship that
lacks faith and trust from the onset will have wide communication gap and may
never recover.
If you find yourself
in a difficult relationship now, you need to give yourselves a second chance.
Forgive yourselves and rise above your pride and apologise when you need to.
Remember when you don’t
talk, trust will wane and what is relationship without trust.
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