Long distance should not mean the end of your
relationship. Your love affair can still be kept strong even with some distance
between you. This time, your relationship might seem impossible from some
perspectives, actually it requires loyalty and patience to be sustained.
Some factors can work against long distance
relationship even with the most loyal and patient person. The truth is that it
stands as much chance to survive like proximate relationship according to many studies.
If you find yourselves in a long distance love affair,
the following secrets might help you. You have to make sure you talk daily.
Thanks to the digital era, you are presented with communication options. Before
this time you should have agreed on the best way and time to keep in touch. For
the maximum benefit of your chat, it should be when both of you are free to
relax and express yourselves. Since you might have been kept apart by studies
or work, don’t "bust" in when your partner is busy working or studying unless if
you must talk to avoid a boring conversation. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to
interrupt their activities.
Communication can be aided through internet skype or webcam
chat. It surely must be fun having live
video conversation daily if you can afford it as it requires fast internet
connection and high volume of data bundle. In addition you can excitement by
creating videos and taking photos of your daily activities and share them
through the internet exclusively between yourselves. All these will give you
the feeling that your partner is just an inch away from you.
Spontaneously, send e-cards that will reflect your sincere
thoughts towards them to sweep them off their feet. If You can (though not
mandatory), just to add spice, also send post cards and love letters using the
traditional way of sending letter especially now that a registered mail can get
to its destination fast. Imagine receiving such mail from a very far distance
partner and thinking of his/her effort to keep your relationship. Don’t you
think they will live in your heart? I think so.
Your schedule
of activities for a month should be made known to your partner. This will make
them feel part of you and will prevent doubts and jealousy. Any sudden change
will also be made known to them immediately to carry them along.
Since touch and intimacy that is important part of
relationship can’t be found this time, you have to schedule to meet once in a
while but if the distance is too far for such meeting, the anticipation of
coming together someday when the programme might have ended or one joining the
other will be comforting.
If doubts and jealousy arise, it should be addressed
immediately calmly. There would be no point nagging. Never accuse each other
what you are not sure of. Maturity and understanding will help keep you
together and happy as well while you are distance apart for some time or
period.
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