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| World of Love |
What happens after your wedding? Can marriage be
exhausted with time? Maintaining romance in your marriage requires energy,
devotion and being there for each other through bad and good times. Let’s
examine three lighthouses to look out for.
Talk: Talking must be fought for and preserved in
your relationship. Make sure it does not wane. This aspect of communication is
very important. I mean small talk, chats-talking to each other. The man should
be free to communicate what he has done or his feeling without fearing
repercussions or that it might be misunderstood that he is blowing his
trumpets. He can always count on her support and understanding. If you must be
away for an important reason, make sure you hear each other’s voice every day.
Touch: Sometimes you see a baby crying their heart
out just to be touched. The baby wants to be held and petted. That basic,
primitive act, I mean human touch, real contact must be needed. Adults need
this physical contact as well. They need to cuddle together for warmth,
reassurance and comfort in an indifferent, cold world, almost loveless world.
Couple must do this to each other. Touching each other will help their minds
and hearts as well. And you know what that does; it stabilises, comforts and
heals. Do whatever it takes to stay connected so that your spouse can feel
loved, secured, cared for and respected in the relationship.
Need: You
are in their life because you are needed. Others like friends, employers,
business partners, acquaintances may swear they need you. But as far as they
are concerned, you are replaceable. To your spouse you are not replaceable at any
price. Having someone special will flood you with the sort of feelings and self
esteem you need to meet the world every day. It feels great to know that you
are number one in someone’s life.
Partners unite and make effort to grow because they
know they are on a ‘boat’ journeying together against the world. A wonderful
marriage is a blessing that spills into their children’s lives.
A love that
lasts becomes a love story.
Successful marriage is a story worth sharing.
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