You have been with your man for a very long and come to believe that he
is the right one for you. Your relationship had passed through ups and downs nevertheless,
it’s doing well. Now you are thinking of both of you going to the next level
but the man is dragging or seems to not yet ready. You are confused as what
could be the reason of him not eager to upgrade your relationship status. Are
there ways that can make him propose? Let’s see.
You can make it happen without looking like a desperate and pushy woman
through the following methods:
One of the ways to get him to propose is to subtly drop hints once in a
while. Blurt out something like “we will make a good marriage”. From time to
time, tell him about your friends who got married especially your common
friends. You may also talk about common friends or relatives who just proposed
or got proposed to.
When you deliver such topics, don’t try to market yourself. Put emphasis
on how lovely or funny the proposal was. You can digress a bit on how you would
like to be proposed. Use low-key and make it as realistic as possible.
Let’s go to the next. Ask your man how he feels about marriage. This is
to find out his fears about marriage and try to address them one by one. Never
try to address all of his commitment fears at once of which you will fail and
may even end up pushing him further away.
If he didn’t yield to this, don’t worry, you can make it happen other
ways to make him propose. One of which is by showing him what an ideal wife and
mother you can be. Take care of him when he is sick, give him a relaxing
massage after work or cook a delicious meal for him.
Your aim here is not to look like your man’s mother; you should at least
aim to resemble the person who he lived with for almost half his life. So show
him a side of you that is able to nurture and care.
This particular next method will make him keep coming back. Always make
his memories of you as fun and enjoyable as possible. After all who will like
to go back to where he always comes out with sadness or unpleasant memories? A man will base his decision on how he feels
about you when thinking of proposing to you. So don’t forget to pile up as much
happy memory in his subconscious mind as you can if you want to start
considering taking your relationship to the next level. Those memories will
surely be popping up in his quiet times thereby propelling him to long for more.
Finally, make marriage with you seem non-threatening. As you may be
aware, some men see marriage as a maximum security prison. They feel that their
freedom is going to be taken away from them. The strategy here is, don’t be
strict with him while dating so he doesn’t feel he will be caged when he
settles down with you.
Don’t mark his movement now and then. Allow him to go out with his
friends if he is the type. At some point, you can even surprise him by hosting
him and his friends. Once in a while you can initiate going out with you and
have some fun.
This will change his wrong perception of marriage and make him believe
that marrying you will not take his life away from him. Thus, he might be
considering the idea of proposing and marrying you. To make him overcome his
fears of marriage is one the best ways to get him to propose, but you have to
do it slowly.
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