By Jenny Chika Okafor
You meet him. He swears he is the Prince charming you have been waiting
for but there is a catch: he is married with children but living apart under
the same roof with his wife while waiting for their divorce to come through and
most importantly for the sake of their beautiful children.
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| What!!! So you don't want the baby! |
Indeed he sleeps on
the sofa in the front room or sometimes in his son's room if he is sleeping
over at friends. Three years down the road no divorce and he is still sleeping
on the sofa at nights but eating and sleeping in your house and on your bed
during the day and will never spend a night no matter how late. You have never
been on holiday together. You have never met any of his friends or family. Now
the die is cast. You are pregnant and expect him to be happy and what did you
get, no no no no, I do not want to have children out of wedlock. LOL!! You are
right. Out of wedlock my foot. He has now turned man of God who is purer than
diamond. You are in your 40s pushing 50 and totally lost. He is gone just the
same way he came and possibly on another woman's bed on the same sofa story.
Girlfriend please get alive, he is your regular rat
and biggest cheat in town. Where you are is your fault. Sofa sleepers are
solidly married and will never leave their poor wives. You have a duty to
protect yourself. Next time such a rat comes your way sympathize with him and
tell him to come back when the divorce is through and wife has taken the sofa
in the settlement. Sad but true so no tears when the chips are down. But men
who do this, beware, what goes around comes around.
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