How You Can Get Him to Commit

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his is a question that many women are asking themselves. A man who refuses to commit is a common dating dilemma. There can be different causes for this. Maybe he wants to be more secure financially before getting into a relationship. Or he has a trauma from a past relationship. There are some things that you can do to get him to commit.

No pressure

It is very important not to pressure him. If you keep pressuring him, this will only make him feel negative about any commitment. You just need to give him time. Many guys do not want to grow up. They will do anything to keep delaying the process as much as they can. Only if he has the desire to commit, he will do it. 

Get help

If he has issues from his childhood or from past relationships, maybe it is time to get help from a professional. Even if he is mature, he will not commit if he is having this kind of problems. You can encourage him to see a counsellor. Your role in this case is to be supportive.

Be prepared to move on

 But if he has other priorities in his life and does not want to get into any commitment, maybe you will need to move on. Especially if his refusal frustrates you, it may be time to look for a person who has the same priorities as you.

Do not make him jealous

Do not even think about making him jealous by flirting with other men. By doing this you will only make things worse. How can you get him to commit if you are not being faithful yourself? That is the question that you need to ask yourself in that case.