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ow to get a husband? This is a
question women have been asking themselves for hundreds and hundreds of years.
Getting married is the dream of most women and men. Statistics show that
married couples are happier and live longer than their unmarried counterparts.
Centuries ago when most marriages
were "arranged", how to get a husband was easy. But today, especially
in many modern countries, where there are 4 million more women than men, how to
get a husband is not that easy. Also throw in the fact that some men just want
to "play around" and never get married, how to get a husband and I
mean a good husband, can be a daunting task.
Therefore here are 3 proven
tips to help with how to get a husband:
Tip #1. You need to set your
standards straight. Far too many women have an image in their
head of the perfect man that can do everything. You know what I mean. He's very
handsome, earns a large salary, has a terrific sense of humour, is great in
bed, can repair anything, etc. Unfortunately or not, that man probably does not
exist.
Ask yourself this question, are you a
perfect woman? If not, then don't expect your man to be either. This doesn't
mean that you have to lower your standards to the bottom of the barrel, just be
realistic. However if he is cruel to you either mentally or physically, you may
consider dropping him!
You also need to face the fact that
there will be differences between the two of you. So instead of looking at what
separates you, spend a bit more time looking into what unites you. What do you
have in common? Do you have similar goals, desires, and beliefs?
Tip #2. Get him to propose to
you. Once you have a good partner and a flourishing relationship, you
may be thinking about getting married. How to get your boyfriend to become your
husband is now often on your mind.
However, most men are much more
tentative and resistant to the idea of getting married, so how exactly do you
get him to propose to you?
Start to bring up marriage casually
from time to time in your conversations; make sure that it does not relate to
the two of you however. Spend some time talking about your future together to
get a feel for what he wants in life. It also wouldn't hurt to find out what
his views on marriage are. If he has any concerns about the process, naturally
you should try to ease them one by one. If you feel confident enough, you can
try to make a logical argument to get married, but be careful not to turn it
into a fight.
But above all, avoid repeatedly
bringing it up, and tell your friends and family not to pressure him either.
You see men generally need some alone time to think such a big deal through,
and if everyone starts to pressure them, they might have a knee-jerk reaction
and just get the heck out of there.
Tip # 3. Spend time with
happily married couples. This is very important. Spend some
time with your happily married friends and relatives. Let him see the bliss and
joy of marriage.
Also if you want to have children,
spend time with couples who have children and see how he reacts. Men who want
to have children will react positively around children.
How to find a husband might not
be as easy as it used to be, but by adhering to the above three tips, it can be
successfully and happily achieved.
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