APPRECIATION IS A MARITAL TOOL

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By Chukwuneta Obiageli

Appreciate your partner no matter how little their effort to make you happy!

When I came across a friend’s ‘black berry’ status update some time back, I wasted no time in telling her that she had made my day with such moving tribute to her husband (whose birthday was on that day).The words may seem simple but the message is powerful and I quote ‘’ Happy birthday to the man, that makes my smile his priority –may you know no sorrow’’. This can only come from a woman that appreciates her blessing .I teach women this (appreciation) a lot. Go out of your way to appreciate your man’s efforts (no matter how little) towards your happiness. Any man you praise for the little favours he shows you -will double his efforts next time. It is most discouraging when someone begins to feel that whatever he does for you is like pouring water into a basket.

Things Women Do To Destroy Their Marriages.

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By Esther Obazu-Ojeagbase

Wives bear as much responsibility as husbands. We have the power to make our homes, or break our marriages and so it’s very important for a wife to control anger, guide her tongue and be prayerful.

How wives hurt their husbands

While both husband and wife should take responsibility for their parts in a marriage, below are ten mistakes common to women, which can completely destroy a marriage. When women exhibit the following behaviours, it can create a hostile environment, where no one feels safe or comfortable.

SOME MARRIED MEN ARE TICKING TIME BOMBS WAITING TO EXPLODE. GET SMART LADIES!

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By Jenny Chika Okafor

What!!! So you don't want the baby!

You meet him. He swears he is the Prince charming you have been waiting for but there is a catch: he is married with children but living apart under the same roof with his wife while waiting for their divorce to come through and most importantly for the sake of their beautiful children.

The equal rights syndrome has brought harm to the marriage system

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By Odimegwu Onwumere

Commenting on a post on my Facebook page, a lady wrote that to be a good husband one has to be willing to act as an ox whose only role is to carry passengers as well as luggage and still endure harsh treatment.

The above statement is without doubt the mindset of many ladies in our clime today. And this could be the reason many women these days treat their men with disdain, apart from those with the gender equality madness. To this set of ladies they believe that it is eye for eye, tooth for tooth and blood for blood with the men. They see the duties of wives in their matrimonial homes as slavery. They do not have respect for the men or rather put; they believe that a man should respect himself beyond a reasonable doubt before he should expect same from his woman.

PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE (part 1)

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By Barr Godson Nwachukwu

How prepared are you to embark on this journey?

A married man was travelling in an air craft and was wearing his wedding ring on a wrong finger and someone noticed and said "Sir, you're wearing your ring on a wrong finger". The man responded, “Don’t worry; it is because I married a wrong woman".

OVER THE HILL: OLDER MEN, OLDER WOMEN AND HUMAN NATURE.

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By Jenny Chika Okafor

Is it too late to love? No. If only we can come off our fictitious imagination, get real and humble ourselves, we will have it soon

I look around me and see men and women of great intelligence who due to poor choices, over estimation of selves, pride, arrogance and self- conceitedness missed opportunities which may have significantly changed their lives.