With love from your friend, wishing you the best in the New Year!

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Happy New Year!!! Special dedication to my fans!!!

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One hour to hit 2015, your year to shine bright like a Diamond!

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The magnetism a woman needs to keep her man attracted to her for life.

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You might have seen a man just pulled away from a lady for no apparent reasons, especially when things seemed to be going so great between them.

This happens many times to ladies who have the outward qualities that you think a man must be most interested in, good look, nice hair and smart. But there is always one thing lacking that seems to drive a man away after sometime.

These perfect appeared ladies seem to have much going for them, yet they can’t be able to keep a man interested in them for a very long time after the first date.

In the opposite, you see a lady that attract men like a magnet and any man that she dates will adore her and fall head over heels in love with her after the first date.

If you wanna know what LOVE is, watch and read through

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It’s the season of love!

Love your partner unconditionally.

Love you family, your relations and friends.

Love your neighbours.

Love even people you meet on your way.

Even the Bible says love is the greatest!

Truly love is the greatest.

For when there is love, there would be harmony.

Then comes peace and happiness.

In such atmosphere, prosperity ensues!!!

Merry Christmas!!!

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I hope you had a lovely year. If so glory be to God. In the other hand if your expectation has not been met as regard to hooking up, marrying, don’t lose hope, it’s never too late. Another year is some days away. New Year New opportunities! Open your eyes, take your time, may be someone special is around the corner.

Tip for you: Make yourself lovable and be loving too. Caring people are hot in demand! It’s all about reprogramming yourself for real love.

Take this to heart: a selfish person cannot make a good lover.

Wishing you the best!

Lovers Guide encourages you to love genuinely!

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True love will neither run away nor abandon during weak moments but will always stick by in all conditions.

Can he or she count on you?

Cross cultural relationship can work

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In today’s society, many cross cultural relationships are springing up. This is inevitable! Some older people see these relationships as something not workable. And this mentality affects a stable couple. Their justification is drawn from the cultures that may be difficult to understand or adapt to. This short important checklist may determine if you are on the right path with your cross cultural relationship.

Preparing For a Cross Cultural Marriage

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If you are preparing to marry someone who is not of the same culture with you; some of the minor cultural differences will not be a problem if you can be a little bit patient. If you will pay close attention, your relationship will even be stronger in the long run.

The following clues might help you in preparing for a cross cultural marriage.

12 kinds of people you must never marry

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By Azuka Onwuka

This could be described as loneliness in marriage; trying to avoid each other!

The easiest time to prevent a divorce or an unhappy marriage is before marriage, not after. There is no gainsaying that love can have such a drunken effect on the about-to-wed that clear danger signals become unimportant to them, while hope becomes the only commodity. After all, is it not said that love conquers all? Great! But what type of love is meant there?

There are traits that some people cannot drop. It is like hoping that a right-handed spouse will one day become left-handed: a classical case of waiting for "Godot"!

If you are looking for a wife or a husband, please be wary of these groups of people.

Check if he is husband material!

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What a good thing to know he is husband material!

Today’s people fall for appearances. And sadly that may be the main reason for rising divorce statistics. We may be so captivated by good looks, clothing and the mode of dressing, sweet words and some fancy acquisition like cars that we completely sideline character traits of a person. Sometimes we are so charmed by the way someone looks, we don’t seem to care if that person is honest, self-disciplined and controlled, and considerate. Inner beauties can make a happy marriage that’s why you should focus on knowing the person inside than being swayed by the outside beauty. What do you look out for in husband material?

Fall in Love and Remain in Love

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World of Love

What happens after your wedding? Can marriage be exhausted with time? Maintaining romance in your marriage requires energy, devotion and being there for each other through bad and good times. Let’s examine three lighthouses to look out for.

Talk: Talking must be fought for and preserved in your relationship. Make sure it does not wane. This aspect of communication is very important. I mean small talk, chats-talking to each other. The man should be free to communicate what he has done or his feeling without fearing repercussions or that it might be misunderstood that he is blowing his trumpets. He can always count on her support and understanding. If you must be away for an important reason, make sure you hear each other’s voice every day.

Sure METHODS that will make him lead you to the altar soon! Don’t forget to share your testimony with me!

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You have been with your man for a very long and come to believe that he is the right one for you. Your relationship had passed through ups and downs nevertheless, it’s doing well. Now you are thinking of both of you going to the next level but the man is dragging or seems to not yet ready. You are confused as what could be the reason of him not eager to upgrade your relationship status. Are there ways that can make him propose? Let’s see.

You can make it happen without looking like a desperate and pushy woman through the following methods:

Do you support your partner?

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Supportive partners

Supporting your partner, what does it mean to you? Is it not protesting when they want to do something? Standing by them 100% in whatever they are interested in? Or ignoring them totally until they relinquish their plan? Though your reaction and level of support might be directly influenced by what the subject is, you still will be able to support your partner based on reason.

How safe is cheating with a married person?

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There will be a showdown here

Dating a married person can be heartbreaking and dangerous. Most married people involved in extra-marital affair may be having trouble at home or a similar situation.

Despite the reason, most of them will not leave their partner so easily for their illegitimate lover after having bonded for many years especially when children are in-between. There is a risk of intense pain associated with cheating with a married person if you are also married. Imagine being torn between two lovers.

Rebound Relationship can’t be real

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Emotional pain that comes after break up is not something one can wish for. In a world that true love is hard to come by, millions pass through this every day. As a result some suffer deep depression that degenerates to physical and mental sickness while others may recover quickly and move on.

WORDS THAT SHOULD BE DROPPED IN MARRIAGE... (2)

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By Chukwuneta Obiageli

Chukwuneta Obiageli

She is what the Lagos based tabloids call a SOCIETY WOMAN, the type that clichés like ‘most society shindigs are incomplete without her in attendance, rumoured to have dated WHO IS WHO IN NIGERIA’.

So this particular caption of her gist (on the front page of a tabloid) screamed ALL MY MARRIED FRIENDS WISH THEY WERE ME or something of that nature. I didn’t doubt that claim for one minute because I have since realised that a lot of the problems that arise in some marriages is as a result of people WISHING TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE …rather than making efforts to work on their REALITY.

Signs it’s your soul mate

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Between soul mates, there must be a strong affinity and shared values with strong emotional bond. They seem to have unfinished business before. Soul mates relationship is an extraordinary mating of two souls.

There may be signs that you have met yours.  What could have been better anyway?

The signs:

WORDS THAT SHOULD BE DROPPED IN MARRIAGE...(1)

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By Chukwuneta Obiageli

I am not comfortable when the EQUAL RIGHTS sermon is brought into a relationship/marriage. The old fashioned girl in me sees such as a sermon for the WORK PLACE AND OTHER SOCIAL INTERACTIONS. Marriage is NOT ‘benefits’ to be divided into two equal parts but a COMMITMENT (by two individuals) to become ONE-in every sense of the word. Be careful how you use words that end up entrenching SELFISHNESS in your relationship/marriage.

I will rather preach FAIRNESS when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE. Personally, I would desire nothing more from one who sees me as he sees himself, treats me like he would treat himself, sees mine as his’ and his’ as mine. When ‘fairness’ is the bedrock of a marriage/relationship…’rights’ don’t matter. Who drags ‘rights’ with him/herself-anyway?

Get healed fully before getting involved in another relationship

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Are they really together?

One who has gotten out of a toxic relationship should count their blessings that he/she is no longer there. Now it’s the time to heal. You have a probability of getting better or full recovery. Sure, you will deal with all kinds of emotional turbulence on your journey to recovery mostly resulting from unconscious flash backs. Just relax, process through the journey probably with the help of a therapist, you will see yourself recover sooner than ever imagined.

Perhaps, you desire a new and healthy relationship. Probably the ended toxic relationship has robbed you of some pursuits in life. Getting involved in a toxic relationship drains energy and destroys its creative power as well.  To be sure you don’t derail from the process of recovery, avoid the following distractions.

The Secrets that will keep you together when you are distance apart

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Long distance should not mean the end of your relationship. Your love affair can still be kept strong even with some distance between you. This time, your relationship might seem impossible from some perspectives, actually it requires loyalty and patience to be sustained.

Some factors can work against long distance relationship even with the most loyal and patient person. The truth is that it stands as much chance to survive like proximate relationship according to many studies.

WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN ARE YOU?

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By Pastor (Mrs) Dorcas Tegbe

 

 

Nagging wife

“Favour [is] deceitful, and beauty [is] vain: [but] a woman [that] feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.” (Proverbs 31:30) (KJV)

“Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price [is] far above rubies.” (Proverbs 31:10) (KJV)

Womanhood is such a wonderful and challenging experience. The woman was created by divine plan to fulfil a unique and divine purpose. It is to be noted that every woman, without exception is expected to live a life that is worthy of emulation.

CHARACTERISTICS OF A “STRANGE” WOMAN

Communication in Relationship should be a Lifelong act

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Continuous conflict is the mark of a relationship that is no longer working. There can never be peace in a conflict situation even if the partners pretend that nothing is wrong.  The sources of conflict may be distrust, value clashing, negligence, etc., but will worsen as communication gap widens, this leads to the inability of the spouses to communicate their fears.

The role of Intelligent and Emotional Quotients in relationship

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By Kingsley Paul

Stop shouting, hear each other and try to find out the truth

Research has shown that persons with high Emotional Intelligence or Quotient (EQ) possess higher Intelligence skills than those with high Intelligence Quotient (IQ). Emotional Intelligence is the ability to assess and keep your emotions in check than allow them rule you. Emotionally Intelligent persons are in control of themselves with better self esteem as a result relate well with others. They are conscious of their emotions. They can be able to control their emotion excesses. Since they have good self esteem, they don’t need people all the time to validate their convictions. Attitudinal problems resulting to poor human relationship is a product of low EQ. 

Knowledge as a Key to Success in Relationship

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By Barr Godson Nwachukwu

Just take it honey, it's nothing to worry about

In relationship, as in anything else, knowledge is the key to success. Ignorance is dangerous. Lack of knowledge is the fundamental and most frequent cause of failed relationships. Many marriages fail or otherwise fall short of reaching their full potential because the couples never learn what marriage is really all about.